Reasons to rejoice...

Just counting a few of our many blessings!

• JESUS CHRIST has blessed Julia beyond our ability to express to you! I firmly believe that he has answered prayers, blessed, strengthened, healed and touched Julia's life. Thank you, Jesus!
• Julia commicates! A lot.
• Julia walks.
• Julia RUNS!
• Julia is a fully integrated member of our family, church, her school and our community.
• Julia has a great sense of humor.
• Julia plays games, comments on books read to her, solves puzzles...all higher level cognitive skills.
• We are still great friends with Julia's former PT Michelle, and OT, Teresa...for 6 years now! YOU ARE BOTH WONDERFUL and WE LOVE YOU!
• Julia has a great school to attend where she is nurtured and challenged.
• Julia has a great bus driver this year...thanks Martha!
• Julia is cheerful, fun-loving, affectionate and playful.
• We just recently re-connected with Andrea and Hailey, who first introduced us to the beautiful side of Cri du Chat.
• Julia is loved and nurtured by 6 brothers and sisters, 2 uncles, 3 aunts, 4 grandparents, 7 cousins and a host of extended family, friends and adopted siblings, aunts, uncles and grandparents. I firmly believe that all this love has made the difference.
• Julia is creative...just try to hide the baby wipes from her! She will find them. And once she does, she will devise a way to get them!
• AUNT OLGA and EMILY!
• Julia has a great appetite and eats everything we do. She is 4 feet tall and weighs almost 50 pounds at 6 years old! Her reflux issues have been completely resolved and...
• Julia takes no medications!
• Julia is able to participate in Project R.I.D.E. (therapeutic horseback riding for the disabled) weekly. She LOVES the horses!
• Julia has truly unique relationships with each of her siblings, her daddy and me. It is so neat to watch her positive interaction with each of us.
• UNCLE TIM and AUNT KIRSTEN, McKENZIE, TREVOR and NOAH are going to be here NEXT WEEK! We are ALL excited about this!
• Most importantly we know that Cri du Chat has not robbed Julia of being a person. It has created a truly wonderful, unique little girl. Like a wise grandma once said about her granddaughter who also has CDC: "While we long for her to have a 'normal' life, we would not trade her for any 'normal' child in the world!" That about sums it up!

Communication

I have always prayed that Julia would be able to understand, but not just understand...that she would also be able to EXPRESS to us what she understands and how she feels. Lately we are seeing so much more actual conversation from Julia...expression of complete ideas. It is exciting to watch her.

Here are some typical conversations:

Julia: Mom! Pease! 'Mon!!! (Mom...please...come on!)

Me: What, Julia?

Julia: Mom! Nana pay dame! (Mom...Susanna's playing the game!)

Me: Oh, Susanna is playing the game?

Julia: Yas! Mom! Nana Oo-ee-ah pay dame! (Yes! Mom...tell Susanna to let me play the game)


OR

Julia: Mom! Ee-ah ky! (Mom...Olivia is crying!)

Me: What? Why is Olivia crying?

Julia: (Demonstrating on herself) Me pu air! (I pulled her hair!)

Me: Julia! That's not kind! What do you say to Olivia?

Julia: Sowwy. (Sorry.)


Sometimes it's like this:

Julia: (Running to me) Mom!! Mom!! Sowwy! Sowwy!

Me: What did you do, Julia?

Julia takes me by the hand and shows me the mess...towels pulled out on the floor, water spilled, the tub overflowing...you get the picture!

Me: Oh, no, Julia, you made a mess. You have to help clean up.

Julia: K (Okay) and actively involves herself in trying to help. Sometimes I can see where she has already tried to clean up...towels where she has tried to wipe up water, for example.


And finally:

Me: Julia.

Julia: What?

Me: Why are you throwing your books on the floor?

Julia: Cuz. (Because.)

Me: 'Because' isn't a reason!

Julia: Oh. (looks perplexed)

Me: So...why are you throwing the books on the floor?

Julia (looks thoughtful for a moment and then says decidedly): CUZ!

The flip-side is that when she is at school she DOES NOT SAY A WORD!!!! Not a WORD! They are able to bribe an occasional response out of her with fishy crackers or some other edible treat, but Julia does not communicate much outside our family. In fact, Julia will count from 1-10 with very little (if any) assistance as she climbs or descends the stairs at home, but did not meet her school goal of counting from 1-5 WITH PROMPTS for her teachers at school.

While I understand this, it does bother me. I want Julia to be able to express herself to other people as well as her family.

To be fair, I have to note that Julia changed classes this school year. She went from being the most verbal (!!!!) kid in her class to being in a class of kids that is 3 times as large with lots of kids who are older than she is. Many of the kids in her class are not as delayed in regards to speech as Julia is. S0...a new environment, some new classmates (a few familiar kids moved with her last fall too), and new teachers. Add to this Julia's 5 second processing delay between stimulus and response and all of these things conspire together to produce the silence we are seeing at school.

Her teachers are great ladies and they are working hard to get Julia to be more interactive at school. We have recently re-introduced Julia's communication devices (Big-Mac switch and 4 choice switch) in hopes that they will help her communicate more effectively outside our home. I am reconsidering PECS or some other picture-type program that will help Julia's communication.

The bottom line is that Julia DOES communicate! She can express her wants, dislikes and emotions! This is more than we were encouraged to hope for in the beginning and we are so THANKFUL that she is the bright, charming little girl she is.

SHOCK-YIT!!!

The other day Julia was just tooling around the house waiting for the school bus. She saw the cats meowing at the back door for their breakfast and came to me shouting: "MOM!!! MOM!!! Cat eat!!" I asked her if she wanted to feed the cats breakfast. She emphatically replied "YES!!" This is normally Olivia's job, and she had neglected to tell me that she had used the last of the cat food the previous day. I asked Julia what we should feed the cats and she promptly replied "SHOCK-YIT!!" (Chocolate!) We all laughed and told her that cats don't eat chocolate. She was a little confused about this...I mean, chocolate is her favorite thing ever! Why don't CATS eat chocolate?

Later that day I bought cat food and she fed the cats when she got home from school. The funniest thing is that now and then she will come up to us and say "Cat...shock-yit!) and then she just laughs at herself! She is the cutest little girl ever!